Archive for May, 2008

Dorks Shall Rule The World

Just watched Sydney White starring Amanda Bynes last night with the sis.
Though it was pretty formulaic, I must say it was much more entertaining and insightful than I had expected.
From how the movie progresses, dorks shall eventually rule the world.
All we need is a charismatic and intelligent leader with a lot of guts and character.
Most of us are, now or were at one time, dorks. Or wish to be able to free our inner dork.
I am the Hungry One.  I geek out to video games, I nerd out to audio books, and I make funny faces in the mirror.  I am a dork.
I say let the inner dork out. The inner dork needs to roam free.
What do you got to lose? Except maybe a mask or two?
Besides, the best you get by fitting in is being average.

Happy Memorial Day Folks.

The Last Five Years

last5yearsresize.jpgMy brother and my dad flew in the other night for my sister’s graduation in a few hours. With their time here and the upcoming graduation in a few hours brings another reminder as to why it is so important for me to take the necessary steps to ensure a better future for myself and my family. So I thought I’d share a little of what I’ll be doing in the next five years. Since these are my goals they are written in past tense. As I have mentioned before, it’s written in the past tense because they are as good as done.

“In the last five years I have become a successful real estate investor. I have completed 60 real estate deals with at least 5 cash flow properties. Any and all financial burdens are a thing of the distant past. My parents are finally able to enjoy the lives they always wanted and my siblings go to school without ever hearing that we can’t afford something. I have created a wealth for myself that allows me to work for the wealth of others. I have traveled the world to expand my business and to fulfill a goal I have had since I started thinking about what I wanted to do with my life. And now I get to fulfill my goal of working with children and helping them realize and achieve their own wealth.
May 20, 2013″

The Single Step

goalsdoorresize.jpgI need to put my life in more focus.
Since I haven’t done much of anything today I figure it’s a good day to take some measures towards doing so.

Step 1: WRITE IT DOWN. This is an important step because it begins the process of getting the goals in my head. Plus once it’s on paper it’s tangible. I started with writing down what I will have accomplished in 5 years. I also wrote it in the past tense because to me it’s as good as done.

Step 2: SET THE DATE. There has got to be a deadline. Only then can a sense of urgency be built. Since we all know how much work gets done without a sense of urgency, we should all be able to understand how important a deadline is. In my case, I’m a serious procrastinator. My 5 year dead line is May 20, 2013. If you only come back to my website one other time in your life make it May 20, 2013 to see how good of a fortune teller I am.

Step 3: BREAK IT DOWN. Five years is a long time and difficult to digest. I’ve broken my goals down to annually. The first to come on October 1, 2008. Hmm, a little more than 4 months. Sounds like I still got some time right? Well it sure doesn’t look like it from the calendars of the next 5 years that now hang on my bathroom door. I will need to break down my goals even further but that requires some revising. Right now, 3 goals in the next 1.5 years will have to do.

Step 4: MAKE THE DECISION EVERY DAY. Champions aren’t made on game day, they are made in the years of practice before game day. Likewise, deciding to achieve a goal is not something we do once in a while. It’s something we must do every day. So everyday I will read my goals twice a day. Once when I get up and once before I go to sleep. I will make sure I do this because they’re all taped to my bathroom door. Also on my bathroom door: 2 envelopes. One marked “Goals.” The other marked “Sacrifices.” Every morning and every night I’m either going to reach for my goals or I’m going to reach for the things that are keeping me from them. Absolutely nothing is free in life.

Step 5: THINK IT. It may sound cocky, but the best know they are the best. Winners know they will win. They don’t think, “maybe I’ll win today.” The moment you doubt is the moment you lose a little more ground. Respect the competition but know that you are the best. This is the Law of Attraction. This is the Secret. What you think and believe is what you will achieve.

Step 6: ACT. It doesn’t matter how much you think if you don’t act on it. Like my good friend Confucious said: “A Journey of a Thousand Miles Begin With a Single Step.” Hmmm, maybe that was Lao Tzu.

Nothing changes unless we change ourselves first. We all know no one else is going to do it for us.
Have a great decade everyone.

Burma takes the Global Stage

paulinethoughts2.jpgI am outraged at how the international crisis is unfolding in Burma.

Why is this not getting more media coverage and public attention?

On Saturday, May 3rd Cyclone Nargis devastated the southern delta region of Burma, also referred to as Myanmar by its military government. The first I heard of it, a small clip, was Sunday on NPR. Popular sites such as CNN, ABC, Yahoo News, and even disappointedly NPR have allotted the issue in Burma to a front page link & article. As the week continued, the death toll and number missing grimly increased from 10,000 to 20,000 to its now current estimate of 63,000 – 100,000. When the tsunami crisis hit Indonesia in 2004, it was televised everywhere and relief efforts, donation drives were incorporated in TV shows and info-commercials. I think even the recent Chinese Olympic protests received more coverage. For in-depth information, folks, head to the BBC.

After nearly a week, the Burmese government is barely starting to accept foreign aid.

The government, which is highly suspicious of foreigners, balks at allowing aid workers into the country. They are, however, accepting (i.e. confiscating) aid material sent into the country. Without foreign aid workers, there is no way to monitor the distribution process and ensure that the victims will indeed be the ones to receive the critical clean water, food, clothing, etc. Several countries have been hovering on the sidelines in Thailand, waiting for their proper visas to surge in with huge cargo shipments. However, each day spent waiting is another day greater losses and mounting health hazards. France proposes that the United Nations can give Burma ‘the finger’ and provide aid without granted permission from the government.

I don’t know what the Burmese government’s priorities are if they rule suspicion and isolation over the lives of their citizens.

Oh wait, I do know. It’s because..

The Burmese government and military are more preoccupied over a piece of paper than saving one to two million of its population.

Voting for a new constitution doesn’t pair well with a national crisis, yet Burma’s government somehow fits that in the agenda. Instead of sending its soldiers to clean rotting corpses from the delta, rebuild destructed homes and villages, distribute clean water and food, they are parading around the streets encouraging folks to vote. Not like it matters since it’s all a sham and rumored to already “pass” with a 84.6% vote. Not to mention that one to two million displaced people are more concerned with survival, families, and awaiting outside help (but we already know why that’s not happening). How convenient for the Burmese leadership.

The more I hear and read, the more reasons I find to be angry. Despite its desire to remain isolated from the world, this disaster drags Burma in the public radar and forces the government, as well as ourselves to ask some hard questions.
Now that the world is watching, how will Burma respond with increasing pressure from the international community? With such a slow supply of relief or aid, how much longer can the victims, the country, and the world wait? What death toll is high enough to elicit a response, a call to action? Do politics and diplomacy between countries come before the basic rights of preserving and protecting human life? What are the responsibilities of the global community against human rights abuses, including negligence during dire need?

When will the rest of the world decide enough is enough?

Broken Hearted

Last Sunday was a sad day for me.
I got the dreaded call that no one ever wants to get.
The call simply stated that my 7.5 year relationship had ended.
The worse part about it? There is already someone else!

Hahahaha, ok, so I’ve known that there has been someone else for a while now.
And at least I was asked to be a groomsman right?
But it still doesn’t ease the pain!
Oh well, life goes on. (remember, hearts don’t break, they only ache)

Congratulations on your engagement Hai!